Tag Archives: Fourth of July

Retirement Journey: Midway Year One

“The path ahead: Take it one day at a time, to live in the moment, to be a human being, not a human doing, and when I’m able, a human becoming.” — Retirement Aspiration

July 4, 2026

Today, as I begin to draft this status on my retirement journey, midway in year one, it’s the 4th of July holiday. I posted the following on my Facebook feed this morning:

Like most things in the past 10 years, this year’s holiday can only be described as “It’s complicated!” to employ an overused phrase. It describes Trump’s first term as POTUS, the COVID-19 pandemic, the January 6th insurrection, the missed opportunity in the 2024 presidential election, and the “It’s all about me!” narcissism of Trump’s second term, remaking the White House, Washington D.C., and our monuments to reflect his ‘gilded age’ Mar-a-Lago tacky taste, plus the exaggerated emphasis on his 80th birthday, and partisan impact on the holiday.

My hope is that the rest of us can find a way to celebrate the holiday in a personal and meaningful manner that honors our democracy and the traditions of the past, and inspires us to feel pride and gratitude today!

Celebrate with family, friends, and loved ones. Enjoy summer foods and cold beverages, ice cream, parades, and fireworks (please protect your dogs and children).

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A Solitary Life: Living Independently

“What matters in life is not what happens to you but what you remember and how you remember it.” ― Gabriel García Márquez

“Memory is the diary that we all carry about with us.” — Oscar Wilde

Today is the 4th of July, the Independence Day Holiday. Yesterday, I began reflecting on the meaning of the day, which celebrates the independence of a nation following a revolution and the freedom of its people from an oppressive government. Of dire concern — we are living through what may be judged as another oppressive government — our own — as our elected leaders dismantle democracy and favor the corporate aristocracy and dominant white culture. We are not truly free and independent until we are all free and equal under the law. Continue reading

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Remember: Childhood July 4th Celebrations

Long ago, far away
Life was clear
Close your eyes*

Holidays are like mile markers on a journey. We are able to look back to see how far we’ve traveled and where we’ve been simply by reflecting on where we were a year ago on this day. If we look further back, we can return to holiday celebrations of our childhood which for some of us are pleasant memories of simpler times. The rituals and traditions associated with holidays can evoke body memories sparked by smells, sounds, sights, tastes, and touch. For the Fourth of July, it’s the smell of sulfur from lighting sparklers, the sounds and sight of fireworks exploding in brilliant color in the night sky, the taste of hot dogs, ice cream and soda pop and the drum beats of marching bands echoing and rumbling in one’s body. Continue reading

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